routine. We live our lives outside of it, most of the time. But the routine is a fellow traveler who arrives without warning. Just the notes when they are seated in your life. And if you have ... have a problem. And the fat. One of these days you see it on either side. On the couch, on TV, in bed, a walk, in the eyes your partner in an alarm clock. It's like the annoying flies swarming around our table that summer and not leave you alone. You try to scare the, but not enough to make a fuss. If only it were that easy. The routine can come in many ways. Both a single person as a partner. But both can be fatal. For couples, or for love, rather, can be the end. The routine is the only one who can stop love. Absolutely no sense can kill love. Or hatred, anger, jealousy, selfishness, indifference, sadness ... all can be overcome with love pure and true. But a routine can end up with a love of many years. But how routine notes has come to your partner?
When a plan with your spouse becomes a problem. When rather stay home and quiet your ball to do something with the other person. When you speak of "ARE and just your day and little else. When are you going to the beach and speak only making many waves and hot weather. When you see a movie at the cinema and comeback home in the car or walking without talking, or just talking about the movie was good. When you no longer look at the phone to see if you have something of your partner. When you become more happy when he called a friend who you have not see that you call your partner. When you come home and just say, "Hello ..." dais and not a kiss. When no do you cuddle as before. When you no longer hear things is your partner. Or when you no longer wish to know anything else. When you spend more time in silence than speaking. When there are more discussions that joint plans.
But there is also routine for that person alone. When the alarm clock always rings at the same time every day. When you wake up with the same face of oppression and without illusion. When you travel the same route to work every day. When you return from work and throw yourself on the couch watching the same old shit. When you remember the person you're not day after day for months. When relays messages when you were together. When you cry in your pillow and thinking of something past.
Friends ... we're not ever to be fucked so long. Avoid routine. How? Making each day different from each other. Making plans. Taking projects. A single project can create an illusion so great that a smile is not going to face us when we think of him. Making life with your partner is exciting and not boring. Any game, any fool can brighten detallito day. Write something on the bathroom mirror. Putting a face on your toast with jam. A rose on your pillow. A tickle. A walk watching the sunset. Some pictures to remember.
Me I do not mind not having the best job in the world or the best paid. If that I get up in the morning with a smile, wanting to go to work because I enjoy what I do and what I do. In life you have to do what one likes, not what we require in order. Because if we do things that we do not like, eventually reaching the time when the routine is installed again in our lives and make us feel bad and bitter. Never too late to be happy. Never too late to do what we want. Although we have 50 years. If something we like we must. Because we are here to be happy. Not to make our life a martyrdom.
What we do not know if we will be happy without this person that already exists routine? Just you're with that person because you're afraid to be lonely and not happy? You know that person will not be happy. Outside there are thousands of opportunities to be happy. In your hand is what you decide. If you continue to live the rest of your years with the routine. Or wake up in the morning with a smile and eager to live the day. I have a clear what to choose. And live the best life possible. Time flies and life is ending. So put it into practice ... and day lives as if you invented it . Since you're taking.
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